...nobody seemed to see that they were funny at all, and she there and then perceived the great truth that it is not what you say but how you say it that brings the world's applause. Like an ill-lighted squib, she flung her joke fearfully into the...

...in society — the most obvious example is the "expert witness". In general, the Role Theory implies that "it is not what you say, but how you say it" ; but of course, how you say it may depend on what you want to say. Role playing with regard to knowledge...

...used in giving praise determines reactions, providing further testimony to the conventional belief that it is not what you say, but how you say it. Another aspect of style and political skill has to do with the strategic expression of emotion (Hochschild,...

...love and support, for instilling in me the value of hard work and perseverance, and for teaching me that "it is not what you say but how you say it." Finally, I wish to express my heartfelt thanks to my wonderful family, Joe, Steven, and Daniel, to...

...deciding to adopt a belligerent attitude that might make the next night even worse. To reinforce the point that it is not what you say but how you say it that counts, I did not hear a further peep from that neighboring room for the rest of my stay. The...

...understood proper public discourse. He managed to come across as a refined gentleman, again proving that it is not what you say but how you say it. "Our tour has been a happy one in all respects. It has been not only an exhibition of swift and thrilling...

...broaching the subject of taking more pictures should be handled diplomatically. There is an old saying that it is not what you say but how you say it that gets the response you want. Here's my approach. I go to the bride and groom and tell them two...

...may pass up a possible great friend. God is looking at the heart of a person. Sometimes I have said that it is not what you say but how you say it. When you need to have a discussion with someone over a misunderstanding, it is not good to do it by...

...performed in a Japanese mode as it does in its English one. Students also learned, in an active sense, that it is not what you say, but how you say it. Both of these productions proved that creative drama not only aids in reading comprehension, but it...

...was sent, and anyone new being brought into the issue. CHAPTER? TONE & TENOR We all grew up hearing that it is not what you say, but how you say it. Never was anything more true than in writing advocacy letters. lf you write a letter when you are angry...