The Polyamory Breakup Book: Causes, Prevention, and Survival

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Thorntree Press LLC, Oct 4, 2019 - Family & Relationships - 256 pages
Polyamory is not always easy. With multiple partners often come more complex relationships to navigate. This practical guide looks at the common causes of polyamorous breakups, identifies strategies to avoid ending relationships, and provides you with the toolkit to survive a breakup. Kathy Labriola uses real life examples and expert insight as a counselor and nurse. From how to handle jealousy to the practicalities of managing money and time with multiple partners, this book includes tips and insights from the polyamory community. It is inevitable that some relationships will end in a breakup. This book helps you maintain friendships and minimize the impact of a breakup on the rest of your polycule and wider community. Unlike traditional breakup guides, Labriola's book offers insight specific to the polyamory community and addresses the unique challenges that come with multiple partners.
 

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Foreword
Breakups Come With the Poly Territory
What Are the Most Common Causes of Poly
Money Issues that Can Doom Both Monogamous
Domestic Issues That Can Lead to Breakups
Incompatible Needs for Intimacy and Autonomy
Breakups Where Polyamory Plays Some Part
The Most Common Cause of Poly Breakups
When Poor Management of Time and Energy
When Jealousy Is the Root Cause of a Breakup
Why Are Poly Breakups So Excruciatingly Painful?
This book is dedicated to Ms A LaVigna my eighth grade English
Sustaining Your Other Relationships
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Kathy Labriola is a counselor, nurse, and hypnotherapist in private practice in Berkeley, California. She has written two previous books on relationships and has years of professional experience working with polyamorous singles, couples, and groupings on relationship dynamics. Dossie Easton is the co-author of the bestselling The Ethical Slut. She is also a psychotherapist, relationship counselor, and educator. Since 1969, she has lived and worked in sexual minority cultures and is an authority on polyamory.

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