Bully Proof: Practical Strategies

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FriesenPress, Jan 10, 2025 - Self-Help - 276 pages
We have all been affected by violence, intimidation, and bullying to some degree. Children are especially vulnerable to the lasting pain and trauma of these experiences. When we give them the tools and understanding, children can develop the confidence, courage, and knowledge to alter their experiences and to thrive in a world where bullies have always existed.

Bully Proof is designed to provide parents, educators, and coaches with concepts, story telling, and practical strategies to help guide children on the path to let go of fear and embrace personal growth. Children can build strong, ethical character traits that go way beyond being competent with bullies.
 

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Contents

Part I Concepts for Bully Proofing
1
Distant Dan the Small Boy
10
The Victims Dilemma
15
From Shame to Support
18
Hairy Jeff
25
Lovable Rob
29
Rimass Choice
32
Stuttering Stan
37
Lunas Choice
108
Tougher Than Nails
114
Down and Alone Not Out
123
Part II Activities and Practical Strategies
141
You are the Pool
144
The Truth About Emotions
150
Beware of the Unaware
161
Mrs Agreeable
168

Lies Disguised
41
Always Second Never First
48
Jusleen and Master Lee
50
Classmates
52
Sisters of Hum dLa
56
Nobody to Somebody
65
Wong Set It Right
68
My Three Friends
71
Scary Clothes
72
I Love My Nose
74
I Dont Speak Dodo Bird
86
Ninja Granny
91
Bed Wetter
96
Freedom is Being You
104
Bullies Beware of the Truth
170
Questions Questions Questions
173
Taking Ourselves Lightly
175
The Line of Shame
178
My Laptop Grew Legs
182
You Look Good in Frills
188
Master Lo on the Go
194
Moving Day
199
Elevator Lady
204
SixtyFive Pound Superman
213
Circle of Confusion
225
Part III Beyond Bully proofing Authentic Relationships
231
Empathy Gives Birth to Harmony
245
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Chris Leigh-Smith was a vice principal and teacher in a high-needs school where intimidation tactics and violence, both verbal and physical, were normal behaviors. Much of his time was spent coaching and counselling children and their parents, passing on knowledge, life skills, and tools to create empowerment. This book is based on material from years of working with children and adults.

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